Kids and Moving

Moving to a new home can be one of the biggest changes that a family can face, especially for
young children, so it is important to take them into consideration. With sensitive planning these changes can be put into positive framework.

The following are a few points to take into consideration.

• Prepare your children for the move by giving them lots of information about the reasons for moving and letting them know what they can expect in their new home.
• Invite children to talk about their feelings with you.
• Listen to what they have to say and assure them that you understand.
• Avoid being over optimistic and insisting everything will be wonderful. Even if the new home is fantastic it may still take time for them to adjust.
• Try not to take it personally if your child is having trouble adjusting to the move and blames you for causing it.
• Try to explain that sometimes big decisions need to be made and some cannot be avoided.
• Provide emotional support and understanding.
• Share the feelings that you may have had during your childhood.
• Don’t forget to share your feelings with someone, adults sometimes need support as well.
• Focus on the positive aspects of your new home, neighbourhood and community.

Remember, your local First National Real Estate consultant can provide information and contacts that will assist you to settle into your new area.

Just ask.